Wow, I thought I would of blogged everyday when I was here but it hasn't happened that way...so here is an update on our first week, we have been here on our first trip to bring our son home.
Travel day was very long, we left June 16th, Sunday morning at 7am for the airport flew to Philadelphia and then Germany and then finally arriving in Riga, Latvia at 1:30pm on Monday. but with excitement of seeing Mitchell I was not tired at all. The plane landed and when I saw the airport that said "Riga", my eyes filled with tears, at the thoughts that he was in that building waiting, and It was a matter of minutes before I would see him. It was like a dream, felt unreal that we were finally here and finally going to see him again after 5 long months. After in the airport we got our luggage (11 suitcases!!) that took awhile. it was very crowded, we went down this hall to go through the doorway that led out, and when we stepped through the door Mitchell was standing as close to the door as he could and as soon as I stepped through the door he grabbed me and hugged me so hard it sent my sunglasses, that were on top of my head, flying through the air. we were blocking the whole door way but we didn't care, I dropped all of my bags right there and hugged that child. We didn't get any pictures of this beautiful moment, it happened so fast. He went to everyone after that and hugged them, and then we headed to our apartment.
Mitchell got to go back to our apartment with us on that day until 10pm that night. The orphanage allowed him to stay with us for a while. after settling in we went for a walk around Old Riga, He was so happy to show us around and take pictures. He held my hand around the whole city and smiled from ear to ear. After we went back it was very difficult to let him leave and go back to the orphanage, he left and took the bus back for the night. I held it together pretty good, knowing I needed to unpack and that we would see him in the morning. but it was so difficult to see him and then for him to leave.
Tuesday morning we were picked up by our attorney to go to his orphanage. The Orphanage director had request to sit down with us and review Mitchell's file together before court. Our court wasn't until 4pm, I was worried that after our meeting he would have to stay there until court and not be with us all day. but our attorney said that would be up to the orphanage director. As soon as we pulled up and parked Mitchell came out the door and grabbed me and kissed me, my attorney said I guess this is him, and she started laughing. There were lots of children playing in the yard and they all stood and watched. After our meeting with the director, which we learned things about our Mitchell we didn't know, about his family and his past...would break your heart, maybe I will share that one day...We then went and got to see his room, it was up some stairs that were concrete and then down a hall, when he got to his room he opened the door with a key, felt more like an institution, but was very nice and clean. His room had 2 beds in it and a desk. He then talked in Latvian back and forth with the lady at the orphanage and then our translator said that Mitchell asked to leave with us, and they said yes. He opened this sliding door which was a closet and pulled out his suitcase, he was already packed. I thought that was so cute, they said he got up at 7am and had been ready and waiting. I am thankful for all of the staff at the orphanage they are so very nice and helpful in this journey. as we were leaving and Mitchell was rolling his suitcase behind him the director starting crying. she said she was going to miss him. She wished all of the children at the orphanage were like him. He was so good and sweet. All of the children that were outside stopped and watched as Mitchell pulled his suitcase and all of his new family walked behind him. There faces were shocked and concerned. That moment was hard, my heart broke for all of those children. None of them moved as they watched us head to the car.
At court that afternoon, the social worker from the orphanage said to the panel that Mitchell came home from America and told them he wanted to be with this family forever. That he was very happy with our family. The panel of ladies from the Orphan Ministry were very nice and asked me a few questions mostly on why our family wanted to adopt him. After I said he fits well with our family, Mitchell spoke up and told them he agreed. they all smiled and laughed a little. It was an easy meeting with it so obvious that he wants to be with us and that we love this child so much.
We pretty much stayed around Old Riga, walking around this beautiful city, touring old churches and seeing WWII museums, which by the way are just the coolest. I have taught Mitchell to play spoons and he loves it as much as we do, we now play a lot of spoons:)
Thursday was our visit with the social worker and it went well, they didn't stay long and said they wouldn't be back the next week because it just wasn't needed since he has already bonded with our family. Thursday night we went and meet some of the other families that are also here, I have meet them on Facebook during this journey. It was so great to finally meet them and their children. It has been a blessing to be on this journey with a group of friends that are called to the same challenge, that have the same heart for Latvian children.
It has been a dream come true to be at this point. I can't even express the joy to finally have this child with us. He is so happy, and loves on all of us all day. He is so precious and has such a big heart. Him and Morgan have so much fun in this apartment i love to hear them laughing in the other room, it is enough to put a smile on your face for all eternity. I am sure most of you have seen pictures of him holding my hand, well just let me say how it melts my heart to be the mom of such a wonderful child, he holds my hand pretty much every where we go. I can't Thank you all enough for your support and prayers for helping us get to this point in our journey, let me say all of the tears, paperwork and heartache were very well worth it!! Thank you for sharing in this walk with me, you all are a blessing. I will blog more about this week later...fun stuff this week. love you all! Blessing from Riga
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Thursday, June 6, 2013
10 day count down
CAN I JUST SAY WE ARE GETTING VERY EXCITED!!
we are doing a 10 day count down until we see Mitchell! Every morning we send him a picture of something here, with the number of the days left til we see him.
TODAY IS DAY 10!
we only have 9 days until we fly but the count down is until we see him!!
I can't believe we are getting this close!
We are very ready got our Euros in the mail today and our family sticker for the car. suitcases are just about complete, apartment is booked, airline tickets have come in the mail, and even have the taxi scheduled to pick us up at the airport. We are about as ready as it is going to get. I am getting a little nervous we haven't ever flown across the ocean before...we have flown on long distances even Alaska but not over the ocean.
I will blog more tomorrow, have something on my heart I would like to share but don't have the time today. Be Blessed all my wonderful friends, Melanie
we are doing a 10 day count down until we see Mitchell! Every morning we send him a picture of something here, with the number of the days left til we see him.
TODAY IS DAY 10!
we only have 9 days until we fly but the count down is until we see him!!
I can't believe we are getting this close!
We are very ready got our Euros in the mail today and our family sticker for the car. suitcases are just about complete, apartment is booked, airline tickets have come in the mail, and even have the taxi scheduled to pick us up at the airport. We are about as ready as it is going to get. I am getting a little nervous we haven't ever flown across the ocean before...we have flown on long distances even Alaska but not over the ocean.
I will blog more tomorrow, have something on my heart I would like to share but don't have the time today. Be Blessed all my wonderful friends, Melanie
Saturday, June 1, 2013
Reflecting back
The month of May was a month full of anticipation and waiting. I had prayed and prayed we would hear from Latvia by Mother's day. Seeking God for answers and hoping for dates. It was a month that seemed to drag on forever. All day and Night I prayed, The urgency was because our Attorney in Latvia was going on vacation on May 17 for 2 weeks, I was so very desperately wanted to have dates before she went on vacation. Mother's day came and went and still no word from Latvia.
By Tuesday May 14 still nothing, I spent time with God that day and read in Hebrew 11:1, the Faith chapter, reading over all of the men and women of Faith, I know that moment in God's word was a break through in my life and in this journey. I felt God spoke and said Victory, I felt that and I absolutely knew that God was going to bring this miracle of dates in the next 2 days.
I woke up with anticipation, knowing this was going to be the day. The hours went by and nothing. So I went to pray and spend time with God on my front porch on Wednesday May 15th about 12:30, which is 7:30 in Latvia, the enemy telling me it is after hours in Latvia and I wouldn't hear from them now. I stood on what I knew God spoke to me. only 2 days before our attorney is to go on vacation. I was trusting God fully, that this was in His hands. I have learned through this that we as Christians don't walk in Faith like we should myself included. We say we do, but we worry, we trust in things that we see, things that are in front of us. Hebrews 11:1 says Faith is the substances of things hoped for, evidence of things "Not" seen. This was huge for me I was faced with hope in God for something that wasn't in front of me. I held my phone in my hand as I was praying, I got a notification of a email from our adoption agent that said "Referral", I jumped up screaming, running in the house I was so full of joy I couldn't even read it, Tony had to read it, and I said I don't care what it says, lets just hurry and accept it. For those of you that don't know a referral is information about your child, and is released when you request to adopt them. You have to review and accept it before they send you dates to travel to Latvia. I talked on the phone with our Adoption agent and I told her I was ready to go and wanted dates before Daina (attorney) goes on vacation...she later that night called me and said she talked with Daina (which at this point was 11:00pm in Latvia!) and she said she would contact the courts first thing in morning to see if she could get dates, but Riga is the slowest in giving dates and she couldn't make any promises.
So, here we are the last day before Daina goes on vacation...May 16th, I waited all day to hear...each hour I look at the clock...by 12:30pm I said God it is after hours in Latvia and nothing...I decided to sit on my porch and pray instead of crying in my bathroom floor, or laying in my bed crying...I thought my last miracle was on the porch at this same time yesterday, so on the porch I went...praying, and then, A NOTIFICATION ON MY PHONE POPPED UP THAT SAID "WE GOT DATES"
once again I jumped up running in the house screaming.
On the very last day before we would of had to wait for 2 weeks with nothing, God shows up and gives us a miracle. in 2 days we got our referral and dates, for those of you that don't know this is not the norm, days usually go by before you get dates after a referral.
I thank God everyday that at that exact moment on my anniversary God gives me dates to travel to Latvia to finally go get our son. I later saw on the Refferal email that our attorney actually got our refferal from the orphan ministry the Friday before Mother's Day, I did get it for Mother's day...God held onto it I know to show that He is God and all glory goes to Him. Just in so many stories in the Bible, God likes to make thing happen in the impossible. I thought of Gideon when he had 32,000 men (or so) and God took him down to 300 men, to go to battle with, why? to show that He is God and so He gets all the Glory. 2 days before our attorney goes on vacation we get our refferal, the day before she leaves, we get our dates. I love my God of the impossible! To God be all the Glory!!
Now it is June 1, and we are 2 weeks away from going to latvia to get our son. We leave June 16th and will arrive in Latvia on June 17th. Mitchell is very happy, he said he can't wait!
Thank you all for your prayers and support through this journey, we are no where near close to it being over, but we are very close to having him with us again!
By Tuesday May 14 still nothing, I spent time with God that day and read in Hebrew 11:1, the Faith chapter, reading over all of the men and women of Faith, I know that moment in God's word was a break through in my life and in this journey. I felt God spoke and said Victory, I felt that and I absolutely knew that God was going to bring this miracle of dates in the next 2 days.
I woke up with anticipation, knowing this was going to be the day. The hours went by and nothing. So I went to pray and spend time with God on my front porch on Wednesday May 15th about 12:30, which is 7:30 in Latvia, the enemy telling me it is after hours in Latvia and I wouldn't hear from them now. I stood on what I knew God spoke to me. only 2 days before our attorney is to go on vacation. I was trusting God fully, that this was in His hands. I have learned through this that we as Christians don't walk in Faith like we should myself included. We say we do, but we worry, we trust in things that we see, things that are in front of us. Hebrews 11:1 says Faith is the substances of things hoped for, evidence of things "Not" seen. This was huge for me I was faced with hope in God for something that wasn't in front of me. I held my phone in my hand as I was praying, I got a notification of a email from our adoption agent that said "Referral", I jumped up screaming, running in the house I was so full of joy I couldn't even read it, Tony had to read it, and I said I don't care what it says, lets just hurry and accept it. For those of you that don't know a referral is information about your child, and is released when you request to adopt them. You have to review and accept it before they send you dates to travel to Latvia. I talked on the phone with our Adoption agent and I told her I was ready to go and wanted dates before Daina (attorney) goes on vacation...she later that night called me and said she talked with Daina (which at this point was 11:00pm in Latvia!) and she said she would contact the courts first thing in morning to see if she could get dates, but Riga is the slowest in giving dates and she couldn't make any promises.
So, here we are the last day before Daina goes on vacation...May 16th, I waited all day to hear...each hour I look at the clock...by 12:30pm I said God it is after hours in Latvia and nothing...I decided to sit on my porch and pray instead of crying in my bathroom floor, or laying in my bed crying...I thought my last miracle was on the porch at this same time yesterday, so on the porch I went...praying, and then, A NOTIFICATION ON MY PHONE POPPED UP THAT SAID "WE GOT DATES"
once again I jumped up running in the house screaming.
On the very last day before we would of had to wait for 2 weeks with nothing, God shows up and gives us a miracle. in 2 days we got our referral and dates, for those of you that don't know this is not the norm, days usually go by before you get dates after a referral.
I thank God everyday that at that exact moment on my anniversary God gives me dates to travel to Latvia to finally go get our son. I later saw on the Refferal email that our attorney actually got our refferal from the orphan ministry the Friday before Mother's Day, I did get it for Mother's day...God held onto it I know to show that He is God and all glory goes to Him. Just in so many stories in the Bible, God likes to make thing happen in the impossible. I thought of Gideon when he had 32,000 men (or so) and God took him down to 300 men, to go to battle with, why? to show that He is God and so He gets all the Glory. 2 days before our attorney goes on vacation we get our refferal, the day before she leaves, we get our dates. I love my God of the impossible! To God be all the Glory!!
Now it is June 1, and we are 2 weeks away from going to latvia to get our son. We leave June 16th and will arrive in Latvia on June 17th. Mitchell is very happy, he said he can't wait!
Thank you all for your prayers and support through this journey, we are no where near close to it being over, but we are very close to having him with us again!
Monday, May 13, 2013
waiting
Update:
well we are still waiting to hear from Orphan Ministry, to receive his file. It has been 2 weeks, which feels like months. from what I have heard there is no set time schedule of this process. some people have gotten theirs in 2 weeks some 2 months. Of course I am praying for the 2 weeks. I know God has to be tired of hearing from me about this adoption:)
Mitchell is doing very good, he goes to the gym every few days, plays outside now that the weather is beautiful in Riga.
I talked with him on the phone this past Saturday and he said a new sentence in English...He said we only have 3 more weeks until summer. I was really proud of him. He tries very hard to learn English. I know that can't be easy. He is very excited that summer is coming.
He wrote me one day last week and was sad because they had told him we were hosting him and that he would be coming June 27 until Aug.1 and he didn't like that at all. Told me he was sad and didn't know why he would only be in America for 1 month. So I told him we had decided not to host him this summer, that the adoption agent said we should be in Latvia in June or July. He was ok with that. and said that was what the orphanage director told him, but he believed me. I am very glad God directed me not to host, he really didn't understand that and didn't want to do that. God is good and always leads us in the right direction. I am so thankful for the God I serve. I told him we first thought we might not get to come to Latvia that soon and we were going to host so we could see him over the summer, but I don't know if he understood that. All he knows is he wants us to come to Latvia and then bring him home forever not for a month. So He knows we are just waiting on Latvia to let us know when we can go and he is good with that.
We have finished his room. new carpet, painted it green (which is his favorite color), got his new bed and comforter. I still have to put things on the walls and hang the curtains, but it is coming together, and ready for him to come home. I told my family I am so happy for him to have his own room and to have a "big" bed. He has been in an orphanage sharing a room with boys in a twin bed for a very long time. So happy for him. I sent him a picture of his bed today, and he said he liked it a lot!
Well, thank you guys for your continued prayers as we continue to wait. I have good days and bad days, I live on an emotional roll a coaster journey. but I try to tell myself I have only waited for 4 months and which is just a small indication of the waiting and heart ache he has done and gone through for years. Many many years of waiting to be with a family.
well we are still waiting to hear from Orphan Ministry, to receive his file. It has been 2 weeks, which feels like months. from what I have heard there is no set time schedule of this process. some people have gotten theirs in 2 weeks some 2 months. Of course I am praying for the 2 weeks. I know God has to be tired of hearing from me about this adoption:)
Mitchell is doing very good, he goes to the gym every few days, plays outside now that the weather is beautiful in Riga.
I talked with him on the phone this past Saturday and he said a new sentence in English...He said we only have 3 more weeks until summer. I was really proud of him. He tries very hard to learn English. I know that can't be easy. He is very excited that summer is coming.
He wrote me one day last week and was sad because they had told him we were hosting him and that he would be coming June 27 until Aug.1 and he didn't like that at all. Told me he was sad and didn't know why he would only be in America for 1 month. So I told him we had decided not to host him this summer, that the adoption agent said we should be in Latvia in June or July. He was ok with that. and said that was what the orphanage director told him, but he believed me. I am very glad God directed me not to host, he really didn't understand that and didn't want to do that. God is good and always leads us in the right direction. I am so thankful for the God I serve. I told him we first thought we might not get to come to Latvia that soon and we were going to host so we could see him over the summer, but I don't know if he understood that. All he knows is he wants us to come to Latvia and then bring him home forever not for a month. So He knows we are just waiting on Latvia to let us know when we can go and he is good with that.
We have finished his room. new carpet, painted it green (which is his favorite color), got his new bed and comforter. I still have to put things on the walls and hang the curtains, but it is coming together, and ready for him to come home. I told my family I am so happy for him to have his own room and to have a "big" bed. He has been in an orphanage sharing a room with boys in a twin bed for a very long time. So happy for him. I sent him a picture of his bed today, and he said he liked it a lot!
Well, thank you guys for your continued prayers as we continue to wait. I have good days and bad days, I live on an emotional roll a coaster journey. but I try to tell myself I have only waited for 4 months and which is just a small indication of the waiting and heart ache he has done and gone through for years. Many many years of waiting to be with a family.
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Faith
Today May 1
Host or not host that is the question? For several weeks we have been praying and trying to decide to host Mitchell for the summer or not. Hosting would mean that we we see him June 27th no matter what. I love that, it's a sure thing:) I have told him we will see him in June with confidence, because I thought well if we are not in Latvia by then I know we can host and we will see him. That has given him hope, something to count down to. It has really helped him for months now. Yesterday, he said mom, tomorrow is May 1, only one more month until we are together. I got a sick feeling in my stomach, let me tell you why...
Two weeks ago I was praying God we need to know what to do about hosting, we have to make a decision by the end of April, but we don't know when we will be in Latvia to bring him home, could be June could be July but who knows. I filled out the hosting application, and now have several emails from New Horizons to complete more paper work for hosting. but I have this uneasy feeling of lack of faith, like it is my back up plan if God don't come through. Ever been there? why are we like that?
So a couple of weeks ago getting our approval from the USCIS didn't look to promising, another adoption family got theirs in 2 1/2 weeks and then I got an email from the agency that said the USCIS is very over worked at the moment and said they will get everyone's approval completed in a 90 day window!!! 90 day window!! needless to say that was not one of my better days. So, here we were needing to decide on hosting and I get an email like that...I prayed God give us a sign in your word you give people signs..if we are to not host let us get our approval the week of April 22. Here it has only been one week we enter into the second week April 25 I decide to call USCIS and check on our approval, and the lady says "Yes you have been approved on April 24th it is in the mail!!" By Saturday April 27th we had out approval letter. We were approved in 1 1/2 weeks!
I am still thinking host or not host, this is still the question,and I remembered my pray of God give me a sign, and it hit me He give me my approval by the "end" of the week!!! But yesterday I told God can I have a second sign?...you give Gideon more than one sign
Why do I still worry, why do I feel sick to my stomach, because hosting is a sure thing, that I will see that child in June. Not hosting, I don't know when I will see that child.
I am a fixer, I like to make things work, I plan, organize, I , I , I. Well this journey has taught me that I don't do anything...I can't do anything...I can't fix anything...BIG lessons for Melanie Bell over this journey...Melanie is not in control:) I know none of you are this way:)
God give me a vision this morning I want to share with you.
This journey right now in my life is this, I am hanging off a cliff, dangling over a pit. Only holding on to a single very thick rope. This entire journey since I first saw Aloizs picture on Facebook I have been holding on to this rope going into this big dark hole where I could not see the end of. God showed me that He is this rope, and that he has been leading me down this hole, giving me a little more rope a little at a time, as I go further and further down. I am not in control, I can't make it go faster or move in anyway. I can only dangle and move further as He allows. I can't let go, He is all I have got to hold onto. Now I am close to the bottom, and Aloizs, my Mitchell is standing at the bottom of this pit, and I can see him reaching up to me. I want to let go of the rope and jump to the side wall of this pit and climb down, because that would be a sure thing to get to him. But that would not be the way. I have to trust God and hold on to him. And as I look at Aloizs and he is reaching up, he was continuing to say "mom, I am ready." like he tells me everyday...mom I am very very ready to come home. In this vision God showed me this...He holds me as I reach for Mitchell...I long for the day that our hands connect, and Mitchell lets go of everything around him, he leaves everything he knows, everything that has been familiar to him for 15 years, in complete trust to grab my hand as I completely trust and hold onto Gods hand. And as we come out of this pit Mitchell lets go of the past and trust me who is trusting God for his future. Seeing the bright light at the end of this tunnel, as we follow and hold onto the light.
I think this was my second sign.
Praising God for this vision that only can come from Him! We serve a loving God that can not only do the impossible but He loves us completely while He does it!!
I looked up the definition for Faith here it is:
Host or not host that is the question? For several weeks we have been praying and trying to decide to host Mitchell for the summer or not. Hosting would mean that we we see him June 27th no matter what. I love that, it's a sure thing:) I have told him we will see him in June with confidence, because I thought well if we are not in Latvia by then I know we can host and we will see him. That has given him hope, something to count down to. It has really helped him for months now. Yesterday, he said mom, tomorrow is May 1, only one more month until we are together. I got a sick feeling in my stomach, let me tell you why...
Two weeks ago I was praying God we need to know what to do about hosting, we have to make a decision by the end of April, but we don't know when we will be in Latvia to bring him home, could be June could be July but who knows. I filled out the hosting application, and now have several emails from New Horizons to complete more paper work for hosting. but I have this uneasy feeling of lack of faith, like it is my back up plan if God don't come through. Ever been there? why are we like that?
So a couple of weeks ago getting our approval from the USCIS didn't look to promising, another adoption family got theirs in 2 1/2 weeks and then I got an email from the agency that said the USCIS is very over worked at the moment and said they will get everyone's approval completed in a 90 day window!!! 90 day window!! needless to say that was not one of my better days. So, here we were needing to decide on hosting and I get an email like that...I prayed God give us a sign in your word you give people signs..if we are to not host let us get our approval the week of April 22. Here it has only been one week we enter into the second week April 25 I decide to call USCIS and check on our approval, and the lady says "Yes you have been approved on April 24th it is in the mail!!" By Saturday April 27th we had out approval letter. We were approved in 1 1/2 weeks!
I am still thinking host or not host, this is still the question,and I remembered my pray of God give me a sign, and it hit me He give me my approval by the "end" of the week!!! But yesterday I told God can I have a second sign?...you give Gideon more than one sign
Why do I still worry, why do I feel sick to my stomach, because hosting is a sure thing, that I will see that child in June. Not hosting, I don't know when I will see that child.
I am a fixer, I like to make things work, I plan, organize, I , I , I. Well this journey has taught me that I don't do anything...I can't do anything...I can't fix anything...BIG lessons for Melanie Bell over this journey...Melanie is not in control:) I know none of you are this way:)
God give me a vision this morning I want to share with you.
This journey right now in my life is this, I am hanging off a cliff, dangling over a pit. Only holding on to a single very thick rope. This entire journey since I first saw Aloizs picture on Facebook I have been holding on to this rope going into this big dark hole where I could not see the end of. God showed me that He is this rope, and that he has been leading me down this hole, giving me a little more rope a little at a time, as I go further and further down. I am not in control, I can't make it go faster or move in anyway. I can only dangle and move further as He allows. I can't let go, He is all I have got to hold onto. Now I am close to the bottom, and Aloizs, my Mitchell is standing at the bottom of this pit, and I can see him reaching up to me. I want to let go of the rope and jump to the side wall of this pit and climb down, because that would be a sure thing to get to him. But that would not be the way. I have to trust God and hold on to him. And as I look at Aloizs and he is reaching up, he was continuing to say "mom, I am ready." like he tells me everyday...mom I am very very ready to come home. In this vision God showed me this...He holds me as I reach for Mitchell...I long for the day that our hands connect, and Mitchell lets go of everything around him, he leaves everything he knows, everything that has been familiar to him for 15 years, in complete trust to grab my hand as I completely trust and hold onto Gods hand. And as we come out of this pit Mitchell lets go of the past and trust me who is trusting God for his future. Seeing the bright light at the end of this tunnel, as we follow and hold onto the light.
I think this was my second sign.
Praising God for this vision that only can come from Him! We serve a loving God that can not only do the impossible but He loves us completely while He does it!!
I looked up the definition for Faith here it is:
faith:
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Synonyms
COMPLETE TRUST, DID YOU SEE THAT "COMPLETE TRUST"
I encourage you today to completely Trust God with your life.
So the question host of not host...I think not host...Me being real with you guys today, putting myself out there, vulnerable.
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Friday, April 12, 2013
Where are we in our adoption process?
Well tomorrow marks 3 months Aloizs Mitchell has been gone back to Latvia. I haven't blogged in a month, it gets harder as time goes by. I still here from him all day everyday, some days he is very talkative and some days he only writes: Mom I love you, I love you for life es apsolu (which is I promise) one day last week he sent me 83 messages between the time of 8:30 - 5:00. I am very thankful that I hear from him everyday all day. We also talk on the phone about every 3 days. His English is getting very good, I am glad we are able to talk on the phone, it helps him continue to talk in English and it helps to hear voices. Saying bye on the phone is still very difficult for me. We talk about 20 minutes each time and that is the fastest 20 minutes of the day. Please continue to pray for him that God will continue to protect and take care of him as he waits. I can't imagine the waiting and patience this child has had to learn over the years, it makes me feel bad for even saying these last 3 months have seemed so long, when he has been waiting for 6 years. I have been asked about where we are in the adoption process so I am going to list the process and you can see what we have finished and what we have left. Thank you all so much for your support, prayers, and being on this journey with our family.
Here is our Adoption list we have been checking off:
1. Apply to our adoption agency with an application (Jan. 19)
2. Was approved as an adoptive family (Jan. 24)
3. Applied to NC Homestudy our Social worker (Jan. 28)
4. Mailed An Open Door Adoption agency our contract (Jan. 29)
5. Began our homestudy (Feb. 4)
6. Worked on Homestudy Documents and meet with the Social work 4 times (all in the month of Feb.) very busy month:)
7. Completed Homestudy (March 4) (for those that don't know a homestudy is a very detailed 15 page paper of everything about your family that is put together by a social worker. It has to have interviews with you and your children, marriage cert., birth cert., passports, financial reports, police reports, child abuse clearances, and the list goes on...)
8. Apply to USCIS with form 800a. (March 6)
9. Complete Dossier Documents (March 6)
10. Mail Dossier Documents to Latvia and translated(March 8)
11. Get appointment letter from USCIS to have fingerprints done in Charlotte. (April 11)
12. Get approval letter to adopt internationally from USCIS
13. Family is approved by Latvia and receive a referral of their child (which is his file, that will be sent to us to review)
14. Family receives an invitation to travel to Latvia!!
15. Family makes 1st trip for Orphan court, this is were we will be interviewed by orphan court, then granted temporary custody to spend 3 weeks in Riga, Latvia with Aloizs; Our family and Aloizs will be visited by social worker who writes a report for the court recommending the adoption; then we go back to court again where the court approves the formal match of the family with Aloizs; and sends the case forward to a court of Law for adoption proceedings.
We then can travel back to the US with Aloizs, and wait for our next court date.
16. 2nd trip to Latvia Only one parent and Aloizs go on this trip. This is an another interview in court for the approval of the adoption. trip will be about 4 days. We return home for approx. 30 days
17. 3rd trip to Latvia to finalize adoption. Aloizs has final medical exam, and obtains immigrant visa and new passport. this trip we will be in Latvia for about 7 days.
CAN'T WAIT UNTIL STEP 14!!
AND THEN OF COURES STEP 17!!
Thank you for your prayers!!
Here is our Adoption list we have been checking off:
1. Apply to our adoption agency with an application (Jan. 19)
2. Was approved as an adoptive family (Jan. 24)
3. Applied to NC Homestudy our Social worker (Jan. 28)
4. Mailed An Open Door Adoption agency our contract (Jan. 29)
5. Began our homestudy (Feb. 4)
6. Worked on Homestudy Documents and meet with the Social work 4 times (all in the month of Feb.) very busy month:)
7. Completed Homestudy (March 4) (for those that don't know a homestudy is a very detailed 15 page paper of everything about your family that is put together by a social worker. It has to have interviews with you and your children, marriage cert., birth cert., passports, financial reports, police reports, child abuse clearances, and the list goes on...)
8. Apply to USCIS with form 800a. (March 6)
9. Complete Dossier Documents (March 6)
10. Mail Dossier Documents to Latvia and translated(March 8)
11. Get appointment letter from USCIS to have fingerprints done in Charlotte. (April 11)
12. Get approval letter to adopt internationally from USCIS
13. Family is approved by Latvia and receive a referral of their child (which is his file, that will be sent to us to review)
14. Family receives an invitation to travel to Latvia!!
15. Family makes 1st trip for Orphan court, this is were we will be interviewed by orphan court, then granted temporary custody to spend 3 weeks in Riga, Latvia with Aloizs; Our family and Aloizs will be visited by social worker who writes a report for the court recommending the adoption; then we go back to court again where the court approves the formal match of the family with Aloizs; and sends the case forward to a court of Law for adoption proceedings.
We then can travel back to the US with Aloizs, and wait for our next court date.
16. 2nd trip to Latvia Only one parent and Aloizs go on this trip. This is an another interview in court for the approval of the adoption. trip will be about 4 days. We return home for approx. 30 days
17. 3rd trip to Latvia to finalize adoption. Aloizs has final medical exam, and obtains immigrant visa and new passport. this trip we will be in Latvia for about 7 days.
CAN'T WAIT UNTIL STEP 14!!
AND THEN OF COURES STEP 17!!
Thank you for your prayers!!
Sunday, March 17, 2013
St Patrick's Day felt like Valentines day
Today is St. Patrick's Day, but felt more like Valentine's Day, like most days do for me. Most of the time we share how much we love a family member on special days like Mother's Day, Valentines Day or Birthdays. All the days in between we might say "I love you" in the morning and at night. Maybe on the phone here and there...how many times do we tell the ones we love, that we love them?
I hear from our Aloizs all day and night and I am very thankful that one we have the technology to talk and two that he would take the time to write me.
So today I thought wow how often I have heard him say I love you everyday since he has left which has been 2 months, and thought wow, we should should say I love you more to the ones we love. That how much more loved we feel when we hear that all day. I decided to reopen all of my messages from him today and count how many times he told me that he loved me...and it was 40 times just today that he said "I love you my mom for life, I promise." Have any of us ever told our family we loved them 40 times in one day?
can I say I feel loved by this child!
I have often said that I feel a lot of times like he says to me what he wants to hear back, of course I say it back each and every time. He has been robbed of a mom telling him "I love you" everyday of his life, and we have 15 years to make up for.
Tell your family you love them more, tell your children you love them more, don't miss an opportunity you never know how that could change a day, change a year, or even change your child's future. When we feel loved we are secure, happy, fulfilled, safe, empowered, successful, encouraged, and even invincible. Love is a powerful thing. The Bible says
- 1 Corinthians 13
[ The Greatest Gift ] Though I speak with the tongues ofmen and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I havethe gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing. ...
- And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
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