Wednesday, June 26, 2013

First week in Riga

Wow, I thought I would of blogged everyday when I was here but it hasn't happened that way...so here is an update on our first week, we have been here on our first trip to bring our son home.

Travel day was very long, we left June 16th, Sunday morning at 7am for the airport flew to Philadelphia and then Germany and then finally arriving in Riga, Latvia at 1:30pm on Monday.  but with excitement of seeing Mitchell I was not tired at all.  The plane landed and when I saw the airport that said "Riga", my eyes filled with tears, at the thoughts that he was in that building waiting, and It was a matter of minutes before I would see him.  It was like a dream, felt unreal that we were finally here and finally going to see him again after 5 long months.  After in the airport  we got our luggage  (11 suitcases!!)  that took awhile.  it was very crowded, we went down this hall to go through the doorway that led out, and when we stepped through the door Mitchell was standing as close to the door as he could and as soon as I stepped through the door he grabbed me and hugged me so hard it sent my sunglasses, that were on top of my head, flying through the air.  we were blocking the whole door way but we didn't care, I dropped all of my bags right there and hugged that child.  We didn't get any pictures of this beautiful moment, it happened so fast.  He went to everyone after that and hugged them, and then we headed to our apartment.  

Mitchell got to go back to our apartment with us on that day until 10pm that night.  The orphanage allowed him to stay with us for a while.  after settling in we went for a walk around Old Riga, He was so happy to show us around and take pictures.  He held my hand around the whole city and smiled from ear to ear.  After we went back it was very difficult to let him leave and go back to the orphanage, he left and took the bus back for the night.  I held it together pretty good, knowing I needed to unpack and that we would see him in the morning. but it was so difficult to see him and then for him to leave. 

Tuesday morning we were picked up by our attorney to go to his orphanage.  The Orphanage director had request to sit down with us and review Mitchell's file together before court.  Our court wasn't until 4pm, I was worried that after our meeting he would have to stay there until court and not be with us all day.  but our attorney said that would be up to the orphanage director.  As soon as we pulled up and parked Mitchell came out the door and grabbed me and kissed me, my attorney said I guess this is him, and she started laughing. There were lots of children playing in the yard and they all stood and watched.  After our meeting with the director, which we learned things about our Mitchell we didn't know, about his family and his past...would break your heart, maybe I will share that one day...We then went and got to see his room, it was up some stairs that were concrete and then down a hall, when he got to his room he opened the door with a key, felt more like an institution, but was very nice and clean.  His room had 2 beds in it and a desk.  He then talked in Latvian back and forth with the lady at the orphanage and then our translator said that Mitchell asked to leave with us, and they said yes. He opened this sliding door which was a closet and pulled out his suitcase, he was already packed.  I thought that was so cute, they said he got up at 7am and had been ready and waiting.  I am thankful for all of the staff at the orphanage they are so very nice and helpful in this journey.  as we were leaving and Mitchell was rolling his suitcase behind him the director starting crying.  she said she was going to miss him.  She wished all of the children at the orphanage were like him.  He was so good and sweet.  All of the children that were outside stopped and watched as Mitchell pulled his suitcase and all of his new family walked behind him.  There faces were shocked and concerned.  That moment was hard, my heart broke for all of those children. None of them moved as they watched us head to the car.  
At court that afternoon, the social worker from the orphanage said to the panel that Mitchell came home from America and told them he wanted to be with this family forever.  That he was very happy with our family.  The panel of ladies from the Orphan Ministry were very nice and asked me a few questions mostly on why our family wanted to adopt him.  After I said he fits well with our family, Mitchell spoke up and told them he agreed.  they all smiled  and laughed a little.  It was an easy meeting with it so obvious that he wants to be with us and that we love this child so much.

We pretty much stayed around Old Riga, walking around this beautiful city, touring old churches and seeing WWII museums, which by the way are just the coolest.  I have taught Mitchell to play spoons and he loves it as much as we do, we now play a lot of spoons:)

Thursday was our visit with the social worker and it went well, they didn't stay long and said they wouldn't be back the next week because it just wasn't needed since he has already bonded with our family.  Thursday night we went and meet some of the other families that are also here, I have meet them on Facebook during this journey.  It was so great to finally meet them and their children.  It has been a blessing to be on this journey with a group of friends that are called to the same challenge, that have the same heart for Latvian children.  

It has been a dream come true to be at this point. I can't even express the joy to finally have this child with us.  He is so happy, and loves on all of us all day.  He is so precious and has such a big heart.  Him and Morgan have so much fun in this apartment i love to hear them laughing in the other room, it is enough to put a smile on your face for all eternity.  I am sure most of you have seen pictures of him holding my hand, well just let me say how it melts my heart to be the mom of such a wonderful child, he holds my hand pretty much every where we go.  I can't Thank you all enough for your support and prayers for helping us get to this point in our journey, let me say all of the tears, paperwork and heartache were very well worth it!!  Thank you for sharing in this walk with me, you all are a blessing.  I will blog more about this week later...fun stuff this week.  love you all!  Blessing from Riga

Thursday, June 6, 2013

10 day count down

CAN I JUST SAY WE ARE GETTING VERY EXCITED!!
we are doing a 10 day count down until we see Mitchell!  Every morning we send him a picture of something here, with the number of the days left til we see him.  
TODAY IS DAY 10!  
we only have 9 days until we fly but the count down is until we see him!! 
I can't believe we are getting this close!  
We are very ready got our Euros in the mail today and our family sticker for the car.  suitcases are just about complete, apartment is booked, airline tickets have come in the mail, and even have the taxi scheduled to pick us up at the airport. We are about as ready as it is going to get.  I am getting a little nervous we haven't ever flown across the ocean before...we have flown on long distances even Alaska but not over the ocean.  
I will blog more tomorrow, have something on my heart I would like to share but don't have the time today.  Be Blessed all my wonderful friends, Melanie

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Reflecting back

The month of May was a month full of anticipation and waiting.  I had prayed and prayed we would hear from Latvia by Mother's day.  Seeking God for answers and hoping for dates.  It was a month that seemed to drag on forever.  All day and Night I prayed, The urgency was because our Attorney in Latvia was going on vacation on May 17 for 2 weeks, I was so very desperately wanted to have dates before she went on vacation.  Mother's day came and went and still no word from Latvia.  
By Tuesday May 14 still nothing,  I spent time with God that day and read in Hebrew 11:1, the Faith chapter, reading over all of the men and women of Faith, I know that moment in God's word was a break through in my life and in this journey.  I felt God spoke and said Victory, I felt that and  I absolutely knew that God was going to bring this miracle of dates in the next 2 days.  
I woke up with anticipation, knowing this was going to be the day.  The hours went by and nothing.  So I went to pray and spend time with God on  my front porch on Wednesday May 15th about 12:30, which is 7:30 in Latvia, the enemy telling me it is after hours in Latvia and I wouldn't hear from them now.  I stood on what I knew God spoke to me.  only 2 days before our attorney is to go on vacation.  I was trusting God fully, that this was in His hands.  I have learned through this that we as Christians don't walk in Faith like we should myself included.  We say we do, but we worry, we trust in things that we see, things that are in front of us.  Hebrews 11:1 says Faith is the substances of things hoped for, evidence of things "Not" seen.  This was huge for me I was faced with hope in God for something that wasn't in front of me.  I held my phone in my hand as I was praying, I got a notification of a email from our adoption agent that said "Referral", I jumped up screaming, running in the house I was so full of joy I couldn't even read it, Tony had to read it, and I said I don't care what it says, lets just hurry and accept it.  For those of you that don't know a referral is information about your child, and is released when you request to adopt them.  You have to review and accept it before they send you dates to travel to Latvia.  I talked on the phone with our Adoption agent and I told her I was ready to go and wanted dates before Daina (attorney) goes on vacation...she later that night called me and said she talked with Daina (which at this point was 11:00pm in Latvia!) and she said she would contact the courts first thing in morning  to see if she could get dates, but Riga is the slowest in giving dates and she couldn't make any promises. 
So, here we are the last day before Daina goes on vacation...May 16th, I waited all day to hear...each hour I look at the clock...by 12:30pm I said God it is after hours in Latvia and nothing...I decided to sit on my porch and pray instead of crying in my bathroom floor, or laying in my bed crying...I thought my last miracle was on the porch at this same time yesterday, so on the porch I went...praying, and then, A NOTIFICATION ON MY PHONE POPPED UP THAT SAID "WE GOT DATES"
once again I jumped up running in the house screaming.  
On the very last day before we would of had to wait for 2 weeks with nothing, God shows up and gives us a miracle.  in 2 days we got our referral and dates, for those of you that don't know this is not the norm, days usually go by before you get dates after a referral.  
I thank God everyday that at that exact moment on my anniversary God gives me dates to travel to Latvia to finally go get our son.  I later saw on the Refferal email that our attorney actually got our refferal from the orphan ministry the Friday before Mother's Day, I did get it for Mother's day...God held onto it I know to show that He is God and all glory goes to Him.  Just in so many stories in the Bible, God likes to make thing happen in the impossible.  I thought of Gideon when he had 32,000 men (or so) and God took him down to 300 men, to go to battle with, why?  to show that He is God and so He gets all the Glory.  2 days before our attorney goes on vacation we get our refferal, the day before she leaves, we get our dates.  I love my God of the impossible!  To God be all the Glory!!
Now it is June 1, and we are 2 weeks away from going to latvia to get our son.  We leave June 16th and will arrive in Latvia on June 17th.  Mitchell is very happy, he said he can't wait!  
Thank you all for your prayers and support through this journey,  we are no where near close to it being over, but we are very close to having him with us again!